Post by Jψηκσ on Feb 20, 2011 0:20:26 GMT -5
BACKGROUND STORY: Met this guy four years ago at a conference, we reconnected in Octoberish. He's 21, almost 22, and in the air force. On thanksgiving, we had a huge fight about how veganism is against god, and if he's "going to marry me" I have to change. He kept saying things like "I love you, I want to marry you" then "I don't know how my parents will feel about you not being christian and being vegan" and just weird shit like that. He said everything I believed in was wrong. I got fed up, and we stopped talking. He started messaging my best friend telling her how much he missed me, and she told him that if he wanted forgiveness to talk to me.
This is how our convo went.
TLDR; Boys suck.
DISCUSS
NOTE: this is not meant to offend anyone who is religious. He just took it too far. >.<
This is how our convo went.
Stephen: I miss talking to you
Me: I'm sorry?
Stephen: I just was really happy when I talked to u
Me: Why? lol
Stephen: Cuz i loved u and I still do
Me: I don't understand why.
Stephen: Well, love comes in all shapes and sizes. Even tho we have differences id be willing to change. I just can't rly prove it right now cuz of the distance. I've never really got that much of a chance
Me: I wouldn't want you to change, I just wish you could see my side and accept it instead of argue it...you do know I have a boyfriend, right?
Stephen: Im trying to angie...ya he looks like a real winner
Me: Is that sarcasm?
Stephen: Its kinda hard cuz I've always ;pictured myself marrying a christian girl that shared some of the same veiws as me, but it really doesn't matter. Ya the winner part is sarcasm
Me: You can still live up to that picture, but its not going to be me. Awesome -.-
Stephen: Well I know you don't believe like that but I can still see myself being with you
Me: How so? You live in texas, I'm going to school here. We're so different. Go marry that christian girl you've always pictured yourself with
Stephen: Sweetheart. I also thought I was gunna go to a christian college which never happened so my dreams kinda went down the brain
Me: Just because you didn't go doesn't mean you can't go in the future.
Stephen: Nahh I don't like those kind of rules. Angie I still like you no matter what.
Me: I'm sorry but I have a boyfriend
Stephen: Lol so? It's not like you're married? ;)
Me: I'm not going to leave him anytime soon.
Stephen: Ok. When you do tho I'll be here..I still want to meet you when I visit Michigan.
Me: Go date someone closer to you. When are you coming to Michigan?
Stephen: :) my heart wants you angie;) march 10-18
Me: Can it want someone else? Hm, maube, but no funny business.
Stephen: Well obviously. Well u never really gave me a big chance like u said u would ;)
Me: How am I supposed to give you that 'big chance' now? I'm taken lol
Stephen: For now ur taken
Me: What's that supposed to mean?
Stephen: Well, what do you think it means?
Me: I don't know, that's why I asked?
Stephen: Well you said your taken and I said for now...
Me: I'm not planning on changing that.
Stephen: I know ur not darling
Me: So why do you keep saying "for now for now for now"?
Stephen: Well.. nothing is certain
Me: I'm happy with him:/
Stephen: Oh im sure u were happy with spencer and the guy before him as well
Me: Oh right, the guy who used me and made losing weight a competition on purpose because he knows I have eating issues. So happy.
Stephen: Spencer..jhonaton I dunno who else made you happy@ the time
Me: Spencer has always made me happy.
Stephen: K I dunno how many guys uve been with but you somehow haven't stayed with them
Me: Oh, so according to your logic I'm never going to be in a lasting relationship?
Stephen: Wow u know what yes my logic...cuz I have logic right?? You can go fuck yourself. Angie
Me: You're so incredibly classy LOL. You haven't changed one bit.
Stephen: Nah I have I've realized I don't have to go for trash eaters ;)
Me: Really? I thought you would like to stick with your native kind. :)
Stephen: Yeah I grew up in a dumb. But your the one living with your fucking grandparents cuz ur real ones can't take u.
Me: At least I'm not a bible-thumping momma's boy:) I made a good decision when I dropped you the first time. You're like every other jealous fool.
Stephen: Hahah I ain't jealous.
Me: That's why you got pissy after I said spence made me happy? Man up.
Stephen: Nahh ur just ugly that's why I ain't jealous
Me: Oh, but you loved me oh so much two hours ago. Get over yourself. You're just mad because I'll never want a childish boy like you.
Stephen: Ya cuz I do want a discustible greasy hair veggie eating girl who rly can't keep her legs closed
Me: That's why you tried sooo hard, right?
Stephen: I guess =)
Me: Go back to jesus he's the only action you'll get lol.
Stephen: Nah ill just get a normal girl
Me: K, have a nice life:)
Stephen: You too good luck
TLDR; Boys suck.
DISCUSS
NOTE: this is not meant to offend anyone who is religious. He just took it too far. >.<