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Post by airceltrai on Sept 13, 2011 14:12:46 GMT -5
Why the FUCK do I get bitched at all the time by my parents? I rarely do anything wrong, I do what is asked of me (unless there's a good reason not to), yet I STILL get bitched at by my father.
Yes, I have a cough. Yes, I've taken allergy and cold medicine to try to cure or even lessen it. IT JUST WON'T GO AWAY. So why is it okay to bitch at me, telling me to FUCKING STOP IT, when its something I can't control? What makes it okay to threaten to kick me out of the house for that?
And I know I have been spending a lot of time in my room. That's because I have homework, and other things I like to do. On top of that, I don't have to be bitched at all the time...oh wait. YOU BITCH AT ME THROUGH THE DOOR FOR THINGS I HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH TOO.
You're the one who pushed me through life without allowing me to stand on my own feet. You're the one who throws everything on top of me. Yet you refuse to accept the responsibility for the things that YOU have caused? Fuck you.
You've pushed me to the point I've become suicidal at one point, and then turned around and say you're gonna call the cops to get me institutionalized? Trying to keep me around just so you can make me suffer? You aren't a father. You are a fucking sick asshole who needs a fucking reality check.
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Post by Kathryn on Sept 13, 2011 14:27:32 GMT -5
I've been through some pretty rough patches in my time, similar to this, but not the same. Let me just say that you have balls, bro, and you certainly have my respect for what it's worth. I like to express myself with music, so excuse if this comes off as a bit cheesy, but I like to listen to this when I get a bit upset. www.youtube.com/watch?v=IfQJ_V9K3EM
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Post by Sp❣rit on Sept 13, 2011 15:23:58 GMT -5
Fathers man, they just want to be the fucking man of the house while being the greatest manchild you've ever seen. That's really harsh though, being threatened to be kicked out of the house all of the time. I know that would make me really defensive if I heard that kind of thing, especially just for coughing. It's a little understandable why a parent would want their kid out of their room all of the time, but if the house is going to be a chaotic mess then why bother leaving your safe haven?
It's sad when you have to be around people, important people to you, that have the need to control you all of the time. The situation is really just so frustrating. What can you do, really, without hurting them and making a mess of things?
so hard man. I'm just glad I have the option to get away from my family, though I love them and it isn't like, same context/situation. :x
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Post by freeziepop on Sept 13, 2011 18:35:22 GMT -5
I'm a firm believer in the fact that nobody can ruin your life quite like your parents. They push and push and say "well we know what's best" but it's usually a crock. I swear to god they just do this stuff to amuse themselves.
Would he really kick you out over something as stupid as a cough? I know he's a prick but that seems a bit extreme. Maybe you should get out of there for a few days. Do you have anywhere you could go to get away from the mess?
I know it sucks and there really isn't anything I can say to help, so just try to endure it. Try to learn whatever you can from this. As long as something positive can be gleaned from it, it's not a total loss. I'm really sorry you have to go through this, man.
If you ever need to yell at something, I'm always a text away. You have all of us to keep you sane. :'D We're a big dysfunctional family here!
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Post by Black Ranger Talis on Sept 13, 2011 18:35:59 GMT -5
I've already talked to you about my beloved parents, but yeah. Parents can be asses. And dads in particular can be emotionless fuckers. All I can advise you to do is to try to get on with your own life. I've advised more than you with my beliefs, but whatever. It's still valid, and you should really remember this.
Blood doesn't make family.
I really can't stress that enough. Your family is who you choose to be your family. You might feel pushed aside by a biological family, but there are many different types of families, all of which are obtainable. Your dad's an ass.
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